** General Introduction
1. My mother, my father, and me
2.The boarding school for toddlers.
3. A child's life
4. Primary school - and Life with the family
5. Running away from school
6. My Parents and paternal uncles
7. My Maternal Uncles
8. The Cultural Revolution Begins
9. My Siblings become Red Guards
10. Our father is arrested
11. A Family of Ill Repute
12. I go to the countryside
13. Life at the Big Farm
14. I fall in Love
15. Escape to Mom's Village
16. My Father in Prison
17. The Death of Grandmother
18. On Becoming a Nurse
19. Entering College - by the front door and back door too
20. Beijing #2 Language School
21. Classmates and siblings
22. Finding a Husband
23. A Career as a tour guide.
24. Hard work and hard play
25. The Hong Kong Boyfriend
26. Leaving the People's Republic
27. High life in America
28. Student life in Chicago
**Remembering my Father
29. Boyfriends and computer classes
30.My Oldest Brother
**Tianamen Protest
31. My Second Brother
32. My Older Sister
33. My Younger Sister
34. My First Niece
35. Requiem for My Mother
36. Mom's Early Life
37.My First Boyfriend - 40 years later
